MS BEX SALIS
Alongside kink in my personal life I also host 'sessions', this is what we call it when you have an appointment with a Dominatrix, I also provide texting sessions for those who would like to keep the kink online or those who live far away. To find out about my kinks and interests, click on the About Me section. To book a in-person session with me, and for some answers to the most frequently asked questions, keep scrolling....
How to Book a Session...
I prefer all session inquiries to be sent via email, this can be found at the bottom of every page on the website or you can get in touch via the contact page. Once a deposit has been received you can be sent my contact number in order to exchange addresses or for emergency purposes, I charge for all kinky conversations outside session inquiries and general conversation. If things get too spicy, I'm guna want some money.
Send an email or message including your preferred name, what you would like to do during your session, some more information on which kinks you would like to explore, the length of the session and also whether or not you would like me to come to you (outcall), if you would like to come to me (incall) or if you would like to book a hotel or dungeon for our session.
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Age, gender, race and occupation are not necessary pieces of information to share with me unless you feel it is pertinent to the session. Please also include any limits, triggers or health considerations that I should be aware of.
Once we've confirmed a date and time a deposit will be expected in order to secure your spot, you do not have a session booked with me until I have received a deposit. There are no exceptions.
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My session days are usually Wed- Sat, 11am till 11pm, though I have a flexible and exciting schedule so exceptions are made to usual session hours, occasionally. Be polite with your inquiries. I am happy to turn down submission requests if potential submissives cannot communicate properly.
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It is also worth noting that I have a strict ' no next day or same day sessions' rule for everyone except my stable subs. To become a stable sub we must have had regular sessions and have built up a relationship.
What does a Session involve?
Every session is different but a few things tend to be consistent, my primary location is in the basement floor of my house, private entrance into a dedicated space. There I have some specialised furniture and plenty of equipment, you will, however, be expected to respect a domestic setting to a reasonable degree. We can arrange a session in an offsite location if you are looking for the typical dungeon atmosphere, this will incur an additional fee paid alongside the deposit. I have also recently set up a small space in North London, whilst my St Andrew cross cannot be moved between the two locations everything else is quite flexible. Make sure to inform me which location you would like to session from as it may effect more immediate availability.
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I like to begin each session itself with a quick chat, allow you to use the facilities and get some water, final payment is presented and then we move onto the sub inspection (where appropriate). This involves the sub standing, eyes forward, in the way they prefer to serve (naked, boxers, full clothed, in a chicken suit), and I will perform an 'inspection' I will often use this time to prepare you for the session. This can be skipped upon request.
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The rest of the session will depend on your request and interests, I'm happy to cater to requirements and interests, to engage in particular fetishes and follow a rough plan, however I will not recite a script or a minuet by minuet plan. I like to keep my subs surprised (within their limits). My personal kinks and interests can be found on the About Bex page.
Session Pricing...
I do not hold session shorter than an hour, with the exception of cold canning of which I offer half an hour sessions for 80 pounds.
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Basic rate starts at 150 (per hour)
(some cheaper rates are considered for certain activities such as tutoring or some basic slave training, this will be disclosed by me where relevant)
Additional requests will incur additional charges.
These include but are not limited to; outfits, equipment requests, special setup requests, water sports, panty /sock souvenir, food play, discrete semi-public play (no fully public play considered outside of designated kink spaces), couples, additional parties (sub or domme). Body/Pussy worship does not usually incur an additional cost but it is completely at my discretion and will never be guaranteed.
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Other services avalible:
- Ball busting quick meet (min 50) - Event Guest , accompany me.
- Event Host / Entertainment / Kink Education ( Event prices vary)
- Shopping Trip (Min spend 200) - Cash Meet (min 100)
- Mean Girlfriend Experience (Prices Vary)
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Deposits are usually about 30% of the total session cost but are often rounded for convenience (this does not include cash meets, overnights or events which will all have variable deposits).
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Pricing Under Ownership
If a submissive is looking to be owned/ build up a daily relationship, a monthly fee can be discussed that will include regular communication, tasks, or training plans and can occasionally also include sessions (this is necessary for anyone looking, realistically, at becoming a 'house subs').
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Limits, Rules and Expectations...
There is information concerning my limits and rules on my About Bex page, however I will restate a few session-specific ones here. If it wasn't clear by my choice to be a professional bad bitch; I don't take shit lightly, please remember this as my rules are not to be broken and I am not to be fucked with. I am considerate of circumstances but pushing my limits will not be tolerated.
No pet names, no darling, sweetheart or hunnies, my preferred titles can be found on the about Bex page.
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Regardless of location, please be courteous to others when entering and leaving.
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My ' real name ' is Bex, this will not be questioned or commented on, otherwise, I'll start finding out about your life and you know you don't want that.
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COMMUNICATE WITH ME, I truly believe that communication is a cornerstone of BDSM so if you want to have a good (or consensually bad) experience, talk to me, be clear about any issues or restrictions you have, my business is about discretion and transparency, you come to me to play out your deepest fantasies, there's no point being shy if there is something I should know. Be honest with me and I'll be understanding, lie to me and mess me about and I will cut you off and never think about you again.