Hello Pet,

What to call me?

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 My preferred honorifics/titles are; Ms Bex/ Mistress Bex, Ms/Mistress Salis, Mistress, King, Boss, God, Sex Demon of Violence and Ecstasy ect. I don't tolerate pet names of any kind and I'm not particularly fond of 'Goddess' but you may get a pass. It's important to note that you may also call me Bex, those who serve are required to call me by a title of some kind, but initial interactions and interactions outside of a session do not necessarily require proper protocol. This does not extend to stable submissives who will be required to use proper titles in every interaction.

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Kinks/Interests

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My main interest in kink is impact play and sadism in general, I like to hurt people. I specialise in fight style impact play which includes more punching and kicking, and can also be in a gym environment. I also enjoy the classic types of impact play and have a number of canes, paddles, floggers ect. I'm also particularly fond of humiliation, bullying and financial domination. Other interests include but are not limited to: bondage, anal training and strap on, slave training, ball busting and some CBT, food play, watersports, tease and denial (with or without chastity &/ bondage), shiny fetish, shoe and foot fetish. Most other kinks considered, I always like to be honest with a sub about my limitations with my experience and equipment but please do enquire if you have a fetish/interest that is not listed here and is not one of my limits. You never know until you ask.... 

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My Ethos / Style / Approach to Kink

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I have been in the kink scene/ engaged in kinky activities in some capacity for about 12 years and have been holding professional sessions full time for four years. I always like to educate myself and expand my knowledge on BDSM practices and kink psychology, I am both professionally and personally enthusiastic about kink and have many kinky partners outside of my work. Enquiring about becoming one of those people automatically excludes you from consideration. Much like most who enjoy kink, I hold the basic tenants of kink quite dear to my heart, for those who aren't familiar with acronyms such as SSC or RACK, this means I value, first and foremost, consent and as such only engage with consenting parties. It also means I won't engage in kinks that that I consider unmanageably dangerous. Obviously some risk and danger is inevitable in kink but if I don't think I can control the outcome of our play or it is psychologically dangerous behaviour, then I will not engage in it, this is at my discretion.

Whilst I take my job very seriously, which I believe is quite important when dealing in the deepest of fantasies, I do also generally see myself as a chilled and laidback type of domme, I like to laugh and enjoy myself during a session and I like it when my subs feel comfortable with me. I am typically quite a 'bully' and a bit of a disciplinarian whilst also enjoy a healthy amount of banter with my clients. All of this is to say I'm not the most serious of people and if you require a more 'Official Dominatrix' tone it is essential that you tell me that first. I'm a professional and therefore quite adaptable, the only thing I will say is whilst I can do nurturing, I am not a mommy domme, though that doesn't mean you can't call me mommy whilst I spank you. I am quite understanding/knowledgeable when it comes to the nature of kink and am happy to discuss kink with anyone who is happy to compensate me fairly for my time and experience. 

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Limits

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My personal hard limits are; pet names, scat, race play and blackmail. I do not shame anyone who has interests in those kinks but I am not personally comfortable with providing services surrounding them. I also only play with consenting human adults, any persons disagreeing with this can go directly to hell, do not pass go, do not collect £200.

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I have gained some experience in Medical Role Play but do not have a full range of equipment. Knife play, medical staples, and needle play are available upon request with a few options for medical-themed fetishwear.

I am not against ABDL services but I flourish more as the evil step mother than the nurturing caregiver that you are probably looking for. I also only really have the space set up for a little/ soft area, I do not have the relevant 'baby' equipment past a few dummies and some stuffed toys.  

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Other limits seems obvious to me but may not be obvious to others so I'll include them here. I will not be disrespected, I do not tolerate rude or disrespectful behaviour, I do not have time for entitled persons and quite frankly it makes for a bad submissive. Most transgressions can be rectified with gifts, so learning lessons on respect can be very expensive for the un-evolved submissive. I am, however, happy to teach those lessons. 

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This goes for every Domme, pro or otherwise, but you are not my submissive until I say you are, you are not owned until I claim you and you are certainly not collared unless I place it on you personally. Claiming you belong to a Dom/me without permission is extremely disrespectful and will likely put a Dom/me off from wanting to own you. Discuss ownership, ask what it takes to belong to me, because if you are walking around with my name on you, you better have earnt it.

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Politics

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It shouldn't come as a surprise to anyone that as a sex worker I typically lean left when it comes to politics, however, I do not talk about politics or current events in session or with my submissives. If you choose to ignore this and inform me of your points of view and that leads to me dismissing you, I can only tell you it could have been avoided by keeping your opinions to yourself. I do offer a rate to talk about politics and discuss political or social views but it as minimum 4x my basic hourly rate.

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A Few Personal Details

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Unsurprisingly I am a very interesting person outside of kink and whilst  usually I would say getting to know me is part of the fun of finding the right dominatrix, I will add a little section here to tell you a few of my interests outside of kink. I am a very creative person and enjoy making and creating all types of things from paintings to jewellery to furniture to leather work. If it can be made at home I will properly try it if I haven't already. I have three pet snakes and a giant African land snail. I enjoy cathartic exercise to manage my rage, with fight training and hip thrust being some of my favourites (wink). I like bad jokes (like dad jokes and puns) and one day I hope to have enough land for a heard of pygmy goats and I would train the violent and adorable little fucks to attack intruders.